Know your worth
People, we can never stop them from criticising and judging. Let it be strangers, acquaintances, friends, frenemies and even family.
I can’t measure the level of severity I’ve been judged, but I’m very sure it will never go away no matter what I’ll do.
‘Da, sexy jua..’
I covered myself up
‘Da, nda ngam usul mu catu’ (does’t suit you)
I change my style
‘Da, over jua’ (being too much)
Eventually, it got me thinking, who am I trying to please?