Am I good? Or am I bad?
There was a time, when I was misunderstood, I kept on going explaining myself trying to convince people that I did or act on certain situation with good intentions. As much as I tried to convince them, if they already committed to misunderstand, there is a very slim chance that they will ever see it otherwise. People-pleasing occasionally, provides good social relations but if it is done in a regular basis, without noticing, this gives an opportunity to people shaming / bully